Fantasy gaming is a world of endless possibilities—dragon-slaying battles, political intrigue in grand kingdoms, and magical adventures in uncharted lands. However, not all players feel welcome at every gaming table. To ensure that everyone—regardless of gender, race, disability, sexuality, or background—can enjoy the experience, it’s important to cultivate an inclusive gaming environment.

Here’s how you can create a fantasy gaming table that embraces all players.

1. Define and Enforce Clear Consent Policies

Consent is the foundation of inclusive gaming. Establish and communicate rules about:

• Content Warnings: Discuss potential sensitive topics (trauma, violence, sexuality, etc.) in advance.
• The X-Card: Allow players to "X" out of any scene that makes them uncomfortable.
• Safe Words: Use a system like "Script Change" to modify scenes in real time.
• Player Agency: Ensure no one is forced into uncomfortable RP situations.

By setting these boundaries upfront, you create a space where everyone feels respected and safe.

2. Welcome Diverse Characters

Encourage players to create characters that reflect real-world diversity. Here’s how:

• Avoid Stereotypes: Steer clear of overused tropes (e.g., "exoticized" cultures, "damsel in distress" tropes).
• Support Unconventional Choices: A dwarf paladin, a transgender sorcerer, or a nonbinary rogue should all be celebrated.
• Worldbuilding for Inclusivity: If your setting includes fantasy magic, consider how societal norms differ—maybe gender binaries don’t exist in your world, or racism is a remnant of ancient wars.

3. Use Neutral & Inclusive Language

• Pronouns: Ask players about their preferred pronouns and model correct usage.
• Avoid Harmful Terms: Replace outdated fantasy slurs with neutral alternatives.
• Neutral Descriptions: Instead of assuming a character’s appearance, ask players to describe them.

4. Accommodate Different Needs

Accessibility matters! Consider:

• Physical Limitations: Offer digital tools (like virtual tabletop apps) if needed.
• Neurodiversity: Allow breaks or quick downtime for players who need them.
• Audio/Visual Accessibility: Use text chat for deaf players or describe scenes in detail for visually impaired participants.

5. Address Problematic Behaviors Immediately

If someone makes a joke at another player’s expense or pushes boundaries, intervene quickly. A simple "Hey, that doesn’t feel great—let’s feel it out differently" can reframe the conversation.

6. Promote Shared Storytelling

Inclusive gaming means everyone gets to shape the story. Rotate who narrates side scenes, ask for player input on world events, and celebrate creative contributions.

7. Educate Yourself & Your Group

Read books, articles, and playtested modules from creators who focus on diversity in RPGs. Some great resources include:

• "The Case for Inclusive Play" (Teya’s Games)
• "An inclusive fantasy tabletop RPG" (Rowan Rowe)
• "Game Master’s Toolkit" (Kobold Press)

Conclusion

An inclusive fantasy gaming table isn’t just about ticking boxes—it’s about making sure everyone feels like their story matters. By fostering respect, diversity, and adaptability, you’ll create a gaming experience that’s fun for all.

So, gather your party, sharpen your dice, and let’s make fantasy gaming a space where all adventurers are welcome!

What steps has your gaming group taken to be more inclusive? Share your experiences in the comments!